When you can't learn it from a manual the process is slower and I've never been good at this.
[But he's trying. The fact he's even having this conversation is testament to how much he wants to succeed when he reaches for the option that isn't exactly conventional.]
Well first, I'd like to know what he actually wants...when I first arrived we'd- well. I can't say I had broken up with him, nothing we were doing had a label on it...but because of that, it complicated things.
We're working on it, we've made progress, but the first thing I need to know from him is if he is willing to have something open, with more than just sex on the table with other partners. I don't- I don't know how to say I get different needs met with different people without it sounding to him like he isn't enough.
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Re: Audio
Date: 2025-01-06 04:22 pm (UTC)[But he's trying. The fact he's even having this conversation is testament to how much he wants to succeed when he reaches for the option that isn't exactly conventional.]
Well first, I'd like to know what he actually wants...when I first arrived we'd- well. I can't say I had broken up with him, nothing we were doing had a label on it...but because of that, it complicated things.
We're working on it, we've made progress, but the first thing I need to know from him is if he is willing to have something open, with more than just sex on the table with other partners. I don't- I don't know how to say I get different needs met with different people without it sounding to him like he isn't enough.